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CREATE POSITIVE CHANGE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP TODAY
I guide individuals and couples toward deeper intimacy and authentic connection through personalized sessions tailored to your unique journey. From navigating bedroom challenges to building stronger communication skills, my approach combines evidence-based sexology with practical relationship strategies that create lasting positive change in your most important partnerships.
A fulfilling relationship transforms your entire life. When your connection is thriving—emotionally and intimately—you move through the world with confidence and joy. You communicate authentically, resolve conflicts with ease, and experience the pleasure and passion you both deserve.
Life’s too precious to settle for disconnection or dissatisfaction.
I’m Heidi Harris, founder of Ducking Princess, and I’m dedicated to helping you create the relationship you’ve always wanted. As a Certified Sexologist and Relationship Coach, I provide straightforward guidance and practical strategies that lead to real results. Together, we’ll build the foundation for lasting intimacy, deeper connection, and a relationship that energizes rather than depletes you.
A thriving relationship creates a foundation for joy and fulfillment. I help couples reconnect, communicate effectively, and rediscover their passion. Together, we’ll build the emotional intimacy and physical connection that makes your partnership one you’re excited to nurture every day.
Your relationship with yourself sets the stage for all others in your life. I guide you to embrace self-compassion, establish healthy boundaries, and recognize your inherent worth. Discover how cultivating self-love transforms your confidence and attracts the authentic connections you deserve.
Exploring beyond conventional relationship structures requires guidance and understanding. I provide judgment-free support for those navigating polyamory, kink, or other alternative expressions of intimacy. Create relationships that honor your authentic desires while building trust and communication.
Moving forward after separation doesn’t have to mean losing yourself. I offer compassionate support as you navigate this significant life change, helping you process emotions, establish new boundaries, and ultimately rediscover your identity and strength beyond the relationship.
Breaking free from unwanted habits creates space for genuine connection. I provide practical strategies and emotional support to address porn dependency, helping you rebuild neural pathways, develop healthier approaches to intimacy, and enhance, rather than diminish, your relationships.
True confidence emerges when you align your actions with your authentic self. I guide you through exercises that build self-assurance in intimate settings and beyond, helping you communicate your desires clearly and embrace your unique qualities without apology or hesitation.
Meaningful transformation happens when all aspects of your life work in harmony. I help you identify your core values, establish actionable goals, and implement sustainable changes that create alignment between your relationships, career, and personal growth for a truly fulfilled life.
If you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure about where your relationship is heading, I want you to know you’re not alone. Even the most passionate connections encounter obstacles, and seeking guidance is a sign of strength, not weakness.
I offer personalized Relationship Coaching, Couples Support, and Sexology expertise to help you create the connection you desire.
My clients are motivated individuals and couples ready to invest in their happiness and transform their relationships into sources of joy and fulfillment rather than stress.
Here are some common reasons people reach out for my help:
When your relationship feels off-balance or your intimate connection has faded, you don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. I understand that seeking help is a courageous step, and I’m here to provide the guidance you need to reclaim your confidence and joy.
I offer personalized coaching sessions focused on relationship enhancement, sexual wellness, and personal growth—all designed to create lasting transformation in your life.
My clients appreciate my straightforward, judgment-free approach that blends practical strategies with compassionate support. Whether we’re meeting virtually or in person, you’ll feel heard, respected, and empowered.
During our sessions, we’ll work together to identify root causes of disconnection, develop communication skills that actually work, and create actionable steps to rebuild intimacy—both emotional and physical.
Ready to transform your relationship and rediscover the passion that’s been missing? Let’s begin.
I’m Heidi Harris, founder of Ducking Princess, and I’ve dedicated my career to helping people create fulfilling relationships and vibrant intimate lives. My approach combines practical strategies with compassionate guidance—because I believe everyone deserves a relationship that energizes rather than depletes them.
I’ve always found conversations about intimacy and connection to be natural, which is why I’ve built my practice around creating a judgment-free space where clients can express their deepest concerns and desires. My clients describe my coaching style as direct yet supportive, with a refreshing ability to cut through the noise and focus on what actually works.
When you work with me, you’re getting more than textbook advice—you’re gaining a passionate advocate who genuinely cares about your relationship success and will hold you accountable to creating the connection you truly desire.
I believe transformative relationship coaching should be accessible while reflecting the value of genuine expertise. My pricing structure offers flexible options to meet you wherever you are in your journey, from single sessions for immediate concerns to comprehensive packages for those ready to commit to lasting change.
One hour Coaching session for one person. Couple sessions are available at $205 per session.
One hour Coaching session for one person meeting once a week each month. Couple monthly sessions available at $750 per month.
Coaching is a form of development in which an experienced person (me) supports and encourages a learner (you) to change their life in certain desired ways, as well as directing them forward purposefully on the path they wish to pursue. I do exactly this, through empowerment and mindfulness, with your sex life. Sex coaching is not awkward or embarrassing. I can tell you: I am very comfortable talking about sex.
Coaching is an interactive process that can be acutely emotional. My role is to provide a calm and nurturing space for you to sort through these emotions. This is sensitive work, and it requires teamwork, along with open and honest communication. I will listen to you without being judgmental. I am open-minded and use a positive approach to coaching. Coaching, goal setting, mindfulness, and a multitude of other techniques will be applied to help you to achieve what your mind and heart are seeking.
Understanding and creating a space of mindfulness is imperative to a vibrant, happy, and fulfilling sex life. Meditation is a great way to cultivate mindfulness. Chat me for some tips on basic meditation techniques. Everyone can meditate! Don’t be intimidated, I promise you can do it. Studies have shown that long-term meditators experience increased cortical gyrification of the brain’s insula. According to one peer-reviewed Dartmouth study, women with more gyrified insula experienced more intense orgasms.
Mindfulness is a necessary skill for all aspects of life, and sex is no different. Once I learned practical techniques for achieving mindfulness, I was able to cut down anxiety and focus my energy on exactly what I chose to focus on. If I am giving someone my time, and allowing them to take my energy, I am going to make sure I’m totally present in that moment. Your heart must be present during sex, or you are not in the correct place or with the correct person for that time. It could just be the timing, but take a good hard look and ensure it is not the person or the place.
Completely experiencing another person, without filters or barriers of any kind, is an experience whose depth and intensity is unmatched in this lifetime. Perfect intimacy matchups lead to the strongest connections, and that leads to better relationships (and as a bonus, whole body orgasms).
It is natural for minds to wander. However, with practice and dedication, you can learn to train your mind to calm itself, and to fully enjoy and appreciate whatever it is you are giving your time and energy to. Doesn’t that sound nice?
Sex coaching is not sex therapy. We will visualize and create a plan to work towards achieving the sex life of your dreams. My role is to empower you with certain tried-and-true tools to achieve your specific goals, with a direct approach that includes compassionate accountability.
Short answer: No.
Long answer: I do not. Sometimes your session involves sex, but this will be done in private, either by yourself or with a partner.
I offer excellent advice. My friends have always confided in me about their sex lives, and I have always found this topic easy to talk about. It’s a major part of life, existence, nature, and being human. It is what makes the world go ‘round, and I believe it solves a ton of problems. Thus, sex coaching is the perfect path for me, and I genuinely enjoy helping couples map out goals and overcome barriers.
The process of working with a sex coach helps to further bond couples (improving their sex life in and of itself), and to strengthen their relationship.
I had an acquaintance tell me one time: All you think about is sex. You are over the top.
My response: I do think about it a lot. What else is there to think about?
Ask people what their daily thoughts truly are, and where their heart lies. The answer? Sex. Thus, this is the topic I love to talk about. And by the way, it is okay to say the word ‘sex’ outloud, I promise. Say it with me: SEX SEX SEX SEX.
I am certified in Sexology, Love Coaching, and Relationship Coaching. This is a fancy way of saying I can help to enrich your knowledge and build your skill and finesse in the art of love, relationships, romance, intimacy, and human sexuality.
I was trained by Dr. Ava Cadell at Loveology University. I have the training and practical knowledge to help you boost confidence in the bedroom and have the sex life you desire. Lastly, I am excellent at building and maintaining strong and healthy relationships. This is really key to building a better sex life, since everything revolves around the relationship.
I am a neutral, well-intentioned and thoroughly trained third party. I am not in the bedroom or in the relationship with you and your partner. I also do not pick a side, and will listen to you both equally and fair-mindedly. At the end of the day, I am going home to my own happy relationship.
It is easier to open up and be brutally honest with a trained professional who is not entwined in your social circle. I am also creative, innovative, driven and organized. I will take notes and help set a clear goal with you. If you don’t have the confidence to talk with friends, family, or even your partner: call up a Sexologist (me). As you will discover, we sexologists are made of pure magic, and we will help you to achieve your sexual goals, both individually and in a relationship.
During the session, we first spend time discussing and becoming conscious of your sex life. Then we work systematically and creatively to transform it, so you may enjoy the desired outcome. I promise to upgrade your knowledge about sex, love, and relationships. Sex coaching sessions move you into alignment with your desired goal. Being coached, just like sex, is an experience that is profoundly unique to the needs and traits of each client.
Explore my latest insights on relationships, intimacy, and personal growth to start your transformation journey even before our first session. Each article combines research-backed strategies with practical advice you can implement today, offering a taste of my straightforward, no-nonsense coaching approach.
My wife is mad with me and we are going through an extremely rough time in our marriage and in life. Our anniversary is coming up and she says she doesn’t want to exchange gifts…
Handjobs. I love them. I enjoy watching my partner pleasure himself this way. I have fun giving them, and believe they are a truly underrated form of pleasure to gift a penis-haver.
Working with me means having a dedicated guide who cuts through confusion with practical, proven strategies that transform your relationship. My sessions create a judgment-free space where you can express your deepest concerns while receiving direct feedback and actionable steps forward.
Clients often tell me they leave our sessions feeling lighter, clearer, and genuinely optimistic about their relationships for the first time in years. Whether we’re addressing intimacy challenges, communication barriers, or personal growth obstacles, you’ll benefit from my straightforward approach that balances compassion with the honest guidance you need to create lasting change.