I can’t decide how I feel about sex in the greenhouse.
My short answer: Have sex where you feel comfortable. Having sex in the greenhouse on your property is an extremely safe option if you are looking for a little spontaneity. Get it, girl. I need a greenhouse to have sex in.
Text I received and my advice below:
FROM HEIDI: This text is from my most vanilla friend. I love this friend. I also love her text to me right after she thought her neighbors were looking into her greenhouse at what her and her husband were doing (or trying to do). I also love that she asked if I would have sex in a greenhouse. I’m not turning Kyle down if he wants to have sex with me in a new place.
Having sex in the greenhouse on your property is an extremely safe option if you are looking for a little spontaneity. Different places can be so hot. I joked with a friend a few weeks ago that Kyle was buying me a new house because we have ran out of places to have sex here and need new ones.
Have sex where you feel comfortable. If your heart or gut is telling your mind “I am not safe here or I don’t like this,” then it’s going to be incredibly hard to orgasm (or enjoy yourself) since your nervous system is not calm. Maybe it turns into a quickie just for him and he will promise to completely satisfy later at a place of your choice (where you are calm and more comfortable). If both are wanting to release, run to the house quickly!
Mostly people do not see what they are not looking for. So, even if the neighbors glanced over they may not connect what was occurring. If they did happen to see, you wouldn’t know (unless they told you).
She is not into exhibitionism or I would have advised this is a baby step to get into it. Most friends I know that love exhibitionism are very outspoken about their love for it. What an exciting kink to have! I wonder if they started in a greenhouse. Kidding.
I followed up with her a week later because I was thinking, “Did she bang her man in there or not?” Please follow up with me friends. I wannnnaaaa know.
