Heidi Harris, Sexologist
Expert Bedroom Princess
Quickie Version:
Hello. I am certified in Sexology, Love Coaching, and Relationship Coaching. This is a fancy way of saying I can help empower you with my knowledge and skills in the art of love, relationships, romance, intimacy, and human sexuality. My passion is to create a space where you can explore the kind of sex life you desire and empower you to make a plan and achieve that goal. You’re pretty magnificent. You can find the longer version down below along with my personal story, my inspirations, and why I do this work.
Intimate Dinner Version:
Here’s how I got here (& my credentials):
I received my certification in Sexology at Love University under Dr. Ava Cadell, it included 300 hours of love, sex, and relationship studies. I received International recognition as an ACS Member and Certified Sex Educator by the American College of Sexologists International.
What inspires Me:
I’m deeply inspired by others who are selfless and ensure the individuals in their circle (jerk; Kyle tells me to just say circle) are well taken care of and completely loved. Love is not freely given, it is attached to tasks, ideas, or things. I believe love should be freely given. It should not be a reward for having a birthday or doing the dishes. Life is so very short, but it is the longest thing we do here until we leave. Enjoying it with people that are inspiring, intriguing, and special to us is what I think makes it worth it in the end.
It’s not all work:
My partner is my buddy, my best friend, my calm spot. I enjoy planning date nights with him (Well I plan mine and I attend his winged ones). They are super fun and after all this time, I still learn new things about him. We plan a talking subject and spend mindful time with one another. The beach is my absolute fave. I also love cooking and making new recipes. I love tacos, like LOVE them. I have this new recycling project going on. I am driving my partner crazy because I literally will not take anything to the recycling. I have two whole cabinets that show that. We reuse or repurpose or drop off at my friend Lily’s house. I have cryptocurrency and am currently in an open relationship with bitcoin(and my altcoins). If you are into cryptocurrency, chat with me immediately for lunch.
Here’s how I Really got here:
I am married to a man who was and is wonderful to me and was immediately my calm place when I met him. His soul understands and completely loves mine. He allows me to be me, actually me- not the watered down version of me. I am a high-energy person and dramatic. He is completely unphased by me, this is rare. He did not ask me to be anything else and loves me for who I am. He was fine with an ambitious, loudmouthed woman who wants everything her way
It was difficult for me to find a balance with working, raising my children, and my marriage. I found myself engulfed with brain fog and I was unhappy. I was experiencing issues of passionlessness in my marriage and a touch of boredom. I wanted my best friend back.
I started asking around for a couple that was happy in their relationship and specifically in their sex life. To this date, I have not found anyone that is a 5 in the relationship and a 5 in the sexual satisfaction category. If this is you, connect with me: I have been searching for you. It should not be this hard to track down a happy couple. I became certified in Sexology to help my marriage. Very few Sexologists chose this route, it chose us for an issue we were experiencing, past trauma, etc.
I am fiercely in love with the idea that everyone should feel love, be satisfied in their relationship setup, and be having great sex. I launched the Ducking Princess to help people who want relationship happiness and to be having the sex that they desire. All of it: the tears, laughter, hard conversations, brought me here. I can help you. You are here in this moment because I am completely open minded and I will help you. So, Hi! I’m Heidi, your Sex Friend.
What it means for you(What working with me looks like):
My approach to sessions is honoring who you are and what brought you here to meet with me. I take a body-mind connections approach at sessions. I use holisticness, personal awareness, and complete mindfulness. I would like to know what makes you you. Tell me the good, the bad, the very ugly, and anything in between. Tell me anything, I am a good listener
Society is not sex positive. I am. Open communication, vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and the uniqueness of each of our experiences is what makes us who we are in relationships.
People will ask me what the “craziest” thing I’ve heard in my work, thinking Sexologists are seen by people who have crazy reasons. Let me be honest, I see really normal people with extremely common challenges. Mostly I see, lack of desire in a longer lasting relationship, lack of orgasm, low libido, or communication struggles with a partner.
This is what I have passion to do. Passionlessness and mismatched sex drives is what I fixed in my marriage. It is near and dear to my heart. I will ensure you have a variety of ways to help your relationship. I will teach you the skills and give support in a nonjudgmental way for your particular situation you are finding yourself in today. You matter. Your happiness matters. Your pleasure most definitely matters.
Bring me your communication breakdowns within your relationships with your partner. I will offer support. I would love to work with you, to create the sex life and path you desire. Chat me.
Training and Certifications:
Heidi Harris is highly verified and certificated practicing Sexologist, Certified Master Sexpert, Certified Love Coach, And A Certified Relationship Coach. I received International recognition as an ACS Member and Certified Sex Educator by the American College of Sexologists International.
✔ AASECT CE certificate: Pleasure After Trauma 12/18/2024
✔ Certified Spiritual Life Coach
✔ Certified Intuitive Energy Healer
✔ Certified Hypnotherapist
✔ AASECT CE certificate: Finding the Room Next Door (to the Room Where It Happens) 6/14/2024
✔ AASECT CE certification: ADHD: How to Ride the Dopamine Train 6/14/2024
✔AASECT CE certification: Give Me Liberty and Leave Me Bred: The Sexual and Reproductive Reality of Breeding Kinks Post-Dobbs 6/14/2024
✔AASECT CE certification: The Complex Interplay: Sexual Response & Sexual Functioning within Reproductive Grief and Loss 6/13/2024
✔AASECT CE certification: The Rise of Rough Sex: What Sexuality Professionals Need to Know About Today’s Emerging Trends 6/13/2024
✔AASECT CE certification: Boundaries in Eight Dimensions: A Framework in Service of Consent 6/12/2024
✔ AASECT CE certification: Schiller Plenary: Hope in the Age of Fear-Based Politics: The Fight for LGBTQ Rights 6/12/2024
✔AASECT CE certification: The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: A New Paradigm for Successful Relationships 4/19/2023
✔ ACS Certified Sex Educator 11/01/2021
✔American College of Sexologists International: Member 11/01/2021
✔ American College of Sexologists International: Certified Sex Educator 11/01/2021
✔ Certified Master Sexpert 4/12/2021
✔ Certified Relationship Coach 4/15/2021
✔ Certified Love Coach 4/15/2021